You feel the truth of this as you read it. That loss, or not, of the contact we receive as we grow up, becomes who we are and affects how we deal with all of our relationships. That understanding of how that contact builds and reinforces our ability to give and show that love we feel within, directs all of our lives. That contact, which may seem such a simple thing, IS who we are, and is shown daily in our day to day existence and how we interact with the world.
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In recent years, a wave of studies has documented some incredible emotional and physical health benefits that come from touch. This research is suggesting that touch is truly fundamental to human communication, bonding, and health.
The benefits of touch start from the moment we’re born. A review of research, conducted by Tiffany Field, a leader in the field of touch, found that preterm newborns who received just three 15-minute sessions of touch therapy each day for 5-10 days gained 47 percent more weight than premature infants who’d received standard medical treatment.
From http://www.lookymommy.com
As Kelly Bartlett points out, being regularly physically affectionate with kids of all ages helps maintain the emotional connection they share with their parents. When that bond remains strong, challenging behavioral situations decrease and discipline becomes less intense overall.
From http://www.everydayfamily.com
Games involving person-to-person contact (e.g. horsey rides, piggy back rides, wrestling, tag etc.)…
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Healing Your Heart From Within 
Hi Mark,
I hopped over here (as I’ve been meaning to do all week) and was so pleased to find this gem. I’m a huge fan of the power of touch. My poor 14-year-old son endures my spontaneous hugs (I make sure he never knows when they are coming!!) and just yesterday I held a friend who had burdens land on her shoulders all at once. Touch is powerful and empowering–I loved your intro and enjoyed the repost.
I hope that you are having a wonderful week!
Michelle
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Hi Michelle! Yes, you do have to sneak in those hugs with 14 year olds. And especially not doing it in front of anyone. Apparently parents have germs when they reach that age 🙂 It has an incredible power for healing and empathizes so strongly to others, especially in times of need. And even the act of giving that touch can be very difficult for many people, from their painful dealings with intimacy, emotional or otherwise. Thank you for your comment, very much appreciated.
Oh, nearly forgot. You got me wondering about my old school place from your post ‘HOMETOWN MERRY-GO-ROUND (LIFE IS A HIGHWAY VOL. 5)’ so I did a google maps wander and got the shock of my life. The school was still there but the open cut mining has removed the entire town. I was stunned. Lots of old bits of the land I remember but nearly everything else is gone. Yes, we do move on in our lives and things change, but that was a real eye opener. I’ll put a picture up in my gallery in the next day or so for you to see. Take care my friend, I do hope your old stomping grounds hold a little more memories than what I found 🙂 Namaste
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Amazing story about your school. I’m so fascinated. It’s a bit like a tornado…ravaging everything, but often leaving a single structure standing in the debris. I can’t wait to see the photos!
I had planned to take more photos of my hometown for the article, but oddly enough, really felt like a stranger and out of place. Our kindergarten building was an old church that has since been leveled. The grade school now holds farm equipment (though the tree I planted in 1976 is HUGE!) and the high school looks the same…as does the ferris wheel. Bittersweet, right?
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Very bittersweet! I just put a photo up in my gallery. Just the one as there is nothing else there, they have flattened everything. It does give you an odd feeling like it is no longer a part of who you are, but it is, because it was a part of your learning, to become who you now are. Strange sensation though. And I didn’t think to see if my tree is still there. It was one of the few that survived a bad drought. I’ll go back and check, now that would bring a smile in remembrance 🙂
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Being a Grandparent… and mother the first thing we do when our children fall down is to touch and rub it better…. Healing is within the touch, a hug, a smile… Wonderful repost Mark.. Thank you
Blessings Sue
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It is a very beautiful post Sue. Glad to have found it and passed it on. Thank you for the comment. namaste
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